IT’S A NEW YEAR!!!!

New Years Eve was a bit different this year because instead of big celebrations my sweetie and I were cuddled up on different couches sniffling, coughing, sneezing throughout the night. we did manage to toast to each other and air kissed and hugged each other. I heard once that whatever you do on New Years Eve and on your birthday paves the way of the entire year!!! Ok so I could read into it this way—my sweetie and I are gonna be sick all year??? Or My sweetie and I are gonna be snuggled on our sofa watching movies all year??? I vote for the last one..at least this means we will be together, comfy and cozy all year. Now for New Years goals—I have always made New Years Goals but last year and the beginning of this year has been a teeny bit STRESSFUL!!! sO, I havent had a chance to sit down and contemplate what it was I really wanted to accomplish this year. I finally got a bit of time to think, I put on ,my thinking cap and just did a bit of thinking… here is what I came up with—11 goals and 11 experiences I want to do this year--- hold on—yep its long—but you just might see yourself in here!!!

1. Yep the typical LOSE WEIGHT that is on everyones list—but really I am not going to concentrate on the weight—I want to live healthier—find an activity I love, eat healthy foods every day and NO FAST FOOD!!!! I will say “NO” more often this  year when something I shouldn’t eat is before me—I said more often  not all the time!!!

2. organize and decorate my house—each week I will get or do one thing to either decorate or organize my house!!

3. keep my car clean—I have no idea when this became a problem but I really really need to work on this!!

4. NO MORE NEGATIVE SELF TALK—I cant tell you how many times in a day I say negative things to myself—“gee you are so stupid” that is my favorite—gotta cut it out!!!

5. write and MAIL thank you notes, birthday cards, get well cards, thinking of you cards, wow you are terrific cards!! I am really good at writing them and then somehow they end up in a drawer somewhere to be found later and not sent. Ok so this year I WILL send them however, don’t be surprised if your card is a tad bit late—I said I would MAIL them—I didn’t say when—hehe!!

6.DO ONE charity, service etc a month—I love to do 5k walks so I hope this year to do at least 6 of them this year. For Jan I am just donating bags of clothes, and anything else I can find to those that need it!

7. Date night once a month with my husband—also called sweetie,baby etc.. AND 4 weekend getaways!!!

8. church—all meetings twice a month—now that means that if I didn’t  make to ALL the meetings that I might end up going each week—hehe—but really my goal is TWICE A MONTH!!

9. CALL PEOPLE ON THE PHONE!! I have no idea where my dislike for calling people on the phone came from but its been brought to my attention that I just don’t call people. I guess subconciously I am thinking you ca e mail, facebook or text—its easier—I don’t have to worry about bugging anyone, and I can say what I want. But its not always the best way.

10. SPEND one on one time with my girls once a month—ok it might not work out to spend one on one time with each girl each month—But it’s a GOAL!!! and I LOVE my girls!!

11.Go to breakfast, lunch or dinner with girlfriends once a month… I just love all my girlfriends, but with busy lives we can always connect—hopefully with this goal I can see some of my favorite people some of the time!!